10 Essential Safety Tips for Online Dating
How to have a positive experience while keeping yourself safe
This article was published as part of the launch of the 2024 Felix Sex Survey results.
1. Keep Your Personal Information Private: Be cautious about sharing personal details such as your full name, address, workplace, and phone number. Keep conversations on the dating platform until you feel comfortable.
2. Research Your Date Before Meeting: Use social media and search engines to verify that the person you’re talking to is who they say they are. This can help you spot any potential red flags.
3. Meet in Public Places: For the first few meetings, choose public, well-lit places where there are likely to be many people around. Avoid secluded areas such as parks, or inviting someone you don’t know well to your home.
4. Tell a Friend or Family Member About Your Plans: Inform someone you trust about your whereabouts. Share details like who you’re going with, the meeting place, and expected return time.
5. Use Your Own Transportation: Arrange your own transportation to and from the date. Avoid getting into a personal vehicle with someone you’ve just met or do not fully trust.
6. Stay Sober: Avoid excessive alcohol consumption or using substances that could impair your judgment and make you vulnerable.
7. Listen to Your Gut: Trust your instincts. If something feels off about the person or the situation, do not hesitate to end the date and leave.
8. Use the Features Provided by the Dating Platform: Take advantage of any safety features your dating app offers, such as location tracking or the ability to block and report users.
9. Have a Safety App Ready: Consider having a safety app on your phone that can send your location to emergency contacts and alert authorities if you feel unsafe.
10. Practice Safe Sex: If you decide to engage in sexual activity, discuss boundaries and use protection to guard against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unintended pregnancies.
Remember, the goal is to have a positive experience while keeping yourself safe. If you ever feel uncomfortable or pressured, it’s okay to pause or stop communications with someone. Your safety is paramount.
